CandorQuestions for couples
Questions for couples, from the first months to twenty years in.
What's something you hold onto for sentimental reasons?
What's in the box
Getting to Know You
Learn the little things that make them who they are.
- What's something you hold onto for sentimental reasons?
- What's a moment that changed the direction of your life?
- What's a hobby from your past that you miss?
Our Story
Relive the moments and rituals that made you two.
- How have we grown as a couple since we first met?
- What's a silly inside joke we have that makes you smile?
- When did you know we'd be okay after a fight?
Vulnerability
Dare to share your deeper fears and insecurities.
- What's a belief about yourself that you're trying to change?
- What's something you've been afraid to tell me?
- What's something you're ashamed of that you've never shared?
Future Together
Dream about what's next for the two of you.
- What does success look like for our relationship?
- What would make you want to move to another city with me?
- How do you feel about having children, and has that changed over time?
Appreciation
Express the gratitude you feel for each other.
- What part of my personality took you time to appreciate?
- What's a moment when you felt proud of me?
- What's a way I love you that you never expected?
Difficult Conversations
Tackle the tough topics with honesty and care.
- What's something I could do differently that would help our relationship?
- Are we on the same page about what commitment means to us?
- Is there something you've been wanting to talk about but haven't found the right time?
Playful
Keep it light with flirty and fun questions.
- What's the most attractive thing I do without realizing it?
- What's the most romantic thing you've wanted to do but felt too shy to try?
- What outfit of mine drives you the most crazy?
About the deck
Couples stop asking each other questions long before they run out of things to learn. The Couples deck brings the asking back. Start with Getting to Know You or Our Story. Move to Future Together or Difficult Conversations when you are both ready.
Play it on a night in, over dinner, or on a video call across time zones. Take turns reading. Answer the card, then ask one follow-up before you draw again. The Desires pile is for adults, so save it for when the two of you are alone.
Where it gets played
- A date night at home
- Anniversaries and trips away
- Long-distance video calls
- The first months, when everything is new
How it works
Start a game
Tap the button to begin a new Couples session.
Choose a category
Pick from multiple categories, each with its own theme and style of questions.
Draw and discuss
Read the question aloud and let everyone answer.