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Couples deck · 30 cards

Questions about your relationship story

Relive the moments and rituals that made you two.

How to play

Every card in the pile

  1. 01How have we grown as a couple since we first met?
  2. 02What's a silly inside joke we have that makes you smile?
  3. 03When did you know we'd be okay after a fight?
  4. 04When did you first feel at home with me?
  5. 05What did you think the first time you saw where I lived?
  6. 06What's a trip or experience we've shared that stands out to you?
  7. 07What song takes you straight back to a moment we shared?
  8. 08What's a habit of mine you fought at first but now love?
  9. 09What's the best surprise I've ever given you?
  10. 10What's your favorite memory of us together?
  11. 11What was going through your head on our first date?
  12. 12What's a way we complement each other?
  13. 13What's a lesson our relationship has taught you about love?
  14. 14What do you think makes our relationship unique?
  15. 15What's the first thing you told a friend about me?
  16. 16How did it go the first time you introduced me to your family or friends?
  17. 17What's something mundane we do together that feels special to you?
  18. 18What milestone in our relationship are you most proud of?
  19. 19What's a challenge we're facing now that we'll look back on proudly?
  20. 20What do you hope we never stop doing as a couple?
  21. 21What challenge have we overcome together that made us stronger?
  22. 22What's the most ridiculous argument we've ever had?
  23. 23When did you first realize you were falling for me?
  24. 24What's something we disagree on but still respect about each other?
  25. 25What's a place that feels like it belongs to us?
  26. 26What's a small ritual we have that means a lot to you?
  27. 27What moment in our relationship are you most grateful for?
  28. 28When did we laugh so hard we couldn't stop?
  29. 29What almost stopped us from getting together?
  30. 30What's something I've introduced you to that you now love?

How to use them

Read one out loud and let everyone answer before the next. Or start a game: Candor deals the pile at random, and a room code puts the same card on every phone.