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Couples deck · 30 cards

Questions about your future together

Dream about what's next for the two of you.

How to play

Every card in the pile

  1. 01What does success look like for our relationship?
  2. 02What would make you want to move to another city with me?
  3. 03How do you feel about having children, and has that changed over time?
  4. 04What kind of legacy do you want us to build together?
  5. 05What's a bucket list item you want to do with me?
  6. 06What traditions would you like us to create together?
  7. 07What do you want us to experience together before life gets more complicated?
  8. 08How do you picture us growing old together?
  9. 09What kind of home do you imagine us living in someday?
  10. 10What's a dream we haven't talked about yet that excites you?
  11. 11What's a dream you have for our life together?
  12. 12How do you want us to care for our parents as they age?
  13. 13What's a challenge you see in our future, and how can we prepare?
  14. 14What's a goal you have for us as a couple in the next year?
  15. 15What's something you want us to celebrate more intentionally?
  16. 16How should we handle money as our life together grows?
  17. 17What role do you see spirituality or values playing in our future?
  18. 18What's something you want us to make time for, however busy life gets?
  19. 19What does a typical Sunday look like for us in ten years?
  20. 20How much time alone do you want to protect as life gets busier?
  21. 21What adventure do you want us to have while we still can?
  22. 22What's a tradition from your family you'd like to continue with me?
  23. 23What's a place you dream of living with me someday?
  24. 24What's something you hope we never have to compromise on?
  25. 25Where do you see us in five years?
  26. 26How do you want us to share the work of running a home?
  27. 27What values do you want to be the foundation of our future?
  28. 28What's something new you'd like us to learn or experience together?
  29. 29How do you hope we keep growing as individuals while we grow together?
  30. 30What's a milestone you're excited for us to reach together?

How to use them

Read one out loud and let everyone answer before the next. Or start a game: Candor deals the pile at random, and a room code puts the same card on every phone.