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Couples deck · 30 cards

Questions to show your partner appreciation

Express the gratitude you feel for each other.

How to play

Every card in the pile

  1. 01What part of my personality took you time to appreciate?
  2. 02What's a moment when you felt proud of me?
  3. 03What's a way I love you that you never expected?
  4. 04When did I make a hard day easier for you?
  5. 05What's something I do that makes ordinary days feel special?
  6. 06When have I made you feel truly special?
  7. 07When did I exceed your expectations?
  8. 08What's your favorite thing about coming home to me?
  9. 09What's a way I make you feel safe and secure?
  10. 10What's something about me that you find endlessly interesting?
  11. 11What's something unique about me that you hope never changes?
  12. 12What's something I've done that made you feel truly understood?
  13. 13What quality of mine do you admire the most?
  14. 14What's a small thing I do that means a lot to you?
  15. 15What's a way I've surprised you that made you fall for me even more?
  16. 16What's a strength of mine that complements yours?
  17. 17What do I do for you that nobody else would think to do?
  18. 18What's a small habit of mine you'd miss if it disappeared?
  19. 19How have I changed your idea of what love looks like?
  20. 20What's something you love about the way we communicate?
  21. 21What's something I've taught you or helped you see differently?
  22. 22When did I show up for you in a way that meant everything?
  23. 23What sacrifice have I made that you're thankful for?
  24. 24What's a gift I've given you that wasn't material but meant the most?
  25. 25How have I helped you become a better person?
  26. 26What's a trait of mine you'd brag about to a stranger?
  27. 27What's something about our partnership that you treasure most?
  28. 28What's something I do that you're deeply grateful for?
  29. 29What's a way I've supported your dreams that meant everything?
  30. 30What do you appreciate about our relationship that you didn't expect?

How to use them

Read one out loud and let everyone answer before the next. Or start a game: Candor deals the pile at random, and a room code puts the same card on every phone.