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Couples deck · 30 cards

Questions about desire for couples

Explore your wants and needs openly.

This pile is for adults.

How to play

Every card in the pile

  1. 01Where's somewhere unexpected you'd like to be kissed?
  2. 02What's a romantic getaway you dream about taking with me?
  3. 03What's something small I could do that would make a big difference to you?
  4. 04When do you feel most connected to me?
  5. 05What's a romantic gesture that would mean the world to you?
  6. 06What's something spontaneous you'd love for us to do?
  7. 07What's something I could plan for us that would make you feel special?
  8. 08What's a memory of us that still turns you on?
  9. 09What does foreplay mean to you outside the bedroom?
  10. 10What's an experience you'd like to create with me in the bedroom?
  11. 11What's a touch from me that always makes you feel connected?
  12. 12What's something you need more of in our relationship?
  13. 13What mood makes you want me most?
  14. 14What's a need you have that you find hard to express?
  15. 15What's something you'd like us to slow down and savor more?
  16. 16What's something you wish we talked about more openly?
  17. 17What does intimacy mean to you beyond the physical?
  18. 18What's a way I could show you more affection?
  19. 19What's a compliment that makes you feel wanted?
  20. 20What's a way I can make you feel more desired?
  21. 21What's something you've always wanted to try together but haven't mentioned?
  22. 22What makes you feel emotionally safe with me?
  23. 23What's a way I can be more present with you?
  24. 24What kind of kiss do you want more of?
  25. 25What's something you'd love for me to initiate more often?
  26. 26What makes you feel most cherished by me?
  27. 27What's your idea of the perfect date night?
  28. 28What's a fantasy you've never told me about?
  29. 29How do you like to be seduced?
  30. 30What can I do to help you feel more relaxed and open?

How to use them

Read one out loud and let everyone answer before the next. Or start a game: Candor deals the pile at random, and a room code puts the same card on every phone.