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Couples deck · 30 cards

Getting to know you questions for couples

Learn the little things that make them who they are.

How to play

Every card in the pile

  1. 01What's something you hold onto for sentimental reasons?
  2. 02What's a moment that changed the direction of your life?
  3. 03What's a hobby from your past that you miss?
  4. 04What's your idea of a perfect day alone?
  5. 05What's the most thoughtful gift you've ever received?
  6. 06What's a small ritual that keeps you sane?
  7. 07What's a book, movie, or song that deeply resonates with you?
  8. 08What's a topic you could learn about for hours?
  9. 09What's your version of comfort on a bad day?
  10. 10What scared you as a child, and does any of it still linger?
  11. 11What did your family argue about at the dinner table?
  12. 12What's a way you've changed in the past year that you're proud of?
  13. 13What's a small detail about yourself that you wish more people noticed?
  14. 14What were you most proud of before we met?
  15. 15What's something you're passionate about that I might not know?
  16. 16What's the best compliment you've ever received?
  17. 17What quality do you value most in the people you keep close?
  18. 18What's something about your personality that surprises people?
  19. 19What's a song that defined a chapter of your life before we met?
  20. 20How do you unwind after a long day, and what ruins it?
  21. 21What instantly puts you in a good mood?
  22. 22What's a childhood memory that shaped who you are today?
  23. 23What's a value you learned from your parents or guardians?
  24. 24Who knew you best before you met me?
  25. 25What makes you feel most alive?
  26. 26What's a compliment you secretly want to hear more often?
  27. 27How do you like to receive affection, and how do you tend to give it?
  28. 28What were you like at sixteen?
  29. 29What does home feel like to you?
  30. 30What's a place that holds special meaning for you, and why?

How to use them

Read one out loud and let everyone answer before the next. Or start a game: Candor deals the pile at random, and a room code puts the same card on every phone.