CandorEvery card in the pile
- 01How should we handle disagreements in our family?
- 02What do you hope our family is known for?
- 03What's a family rule you broke, and was it worth it?
- 04What's a hard choice you made that you're proud of?
- 05Who's the most honest person you know, and how do they show it?
- 06What's a value you've learned from someone outside our family?
- 07When has our family shown its values in a difficult situation?
- 08What's the bravest thing someone in our family has done?
- 09How do you define success, and where did that definition come from?
- 10What's the most important thing you want to teach the younger generation?
- 11What's a life lesson you learned from your parents or grandparents?
- 12What's a sacrifice worth making for family, and what isn't?
- 13What's a rule in our home you'd keep if you ran your own household?
- 14When did you stand up for someone, and what did it cost you?
- 15How does our family show love to each other?
- 16How have our family values changed over time?
- 17What's a principle you try to live by every day?
- 18What's something you think is worth fighting for?
- 19What does being part of this family mean to you?
- 20What matters more: being right or keeping the peace?
- 21What character trait do you admire most in others?
- 22Should family members lend each other money? Why or why not?
- 23What does responsibility mean in our family?
- 24What's a value you've developed that's different from how you were raised?
- 25What's the kindest thing you've seen a stranger do?
- 26Is it ever okay to lie to protect someone in the family?
- 27What does loyalty mean to you when it comes to family?
- 28What value do you think matters most in our family?
- 29How do you balance your own needs with family responsibilities?
- 30What's something our family does that you'd do differently?
How to use them
Read one out loud and let everyone answer before the next. Or start a game: Candor deals the pile at random, and a room code puts the same card on every phone.