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Family deck · 30 cards

Gratitude questions for the family table

Express appreciation for your loved ones.

How to play

Every card in the pile

  1. 01Who in our family has made a big impact on your life, and how?
  2. 02What's something about this family that makes you feel lucky?
  3. 03What gift from a family member has meant the most to you?
  4. 04What's a way someone in our family has shown love that touched you?
  5. 05What quality do you admire most in the person sitting next to you?
  6. 06What's something you admire about our family's history?
  7. 07How has our family supported you through a tough time?
  8. 08What's something you appreciate about our family gatherings?
  9. 09What's the best advice you've received from a family member?
  10. 10Who in our family do you turn to when you need advice?
  11. 11What's something a parent or grandparent did that you only appreciated later?
  12. 12Which family member always knows how to cheer you up?
  13. 13How has being part of this family shaped who you are?
  14. 14What makes you proud to be part of this family?
  15. 15What's a tradition you're grateful exists in our family?
  16. 16What's something you appreciate about our family that you've never said out loud?
  17. 17What's a small thing a family member does that makes your day better?
  18. 18Who in this family would you call first in an emergency, and why?
  19. 19What's a skill someone in this family taught you?
  20. 20When did you feel especially connected to our family?
  21. 21What's something a family member did that you'll never forget?
  22. 22What's something our family does that other families might not?
  23. 23What's a strength our family has as a unit?
  24. 24What's something you love about each person here?
  25. 25What's a moment when our family came together?
  26. 26Who here deserves more credit than they get?
  27. 27What's something you're grateful to have inherited from our family?
  28. 28What's a sacrifice someone in our family made that you're grateful for?
  29. 29What's a memory with our family that you treasure?
  30. 30What's a thank-you you never got to say to someone in our family?

How to use them

Read one out loud and let everyone answer before the next. Or start a game: Candor deals the pile at random, and a room code puts the same card on every phone.