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Friends deck · 30 cards

Deep conversation questions for friends

Thought-provoking questions to build deeper connections.

How to play

Every card in the pile

  1. 01What's the most difficult truth you've had to accept about yourself?
  2. 02What's the hardest conversation you've ever had?
  3. 03Who do you become when you're under pressure?
  4. 04What are you proud of that nobody ever gave you credit for?
  5. 05What's something you believe that most people would disagree with?
  6. 06What's something you pretend not to care about?
  7. 07When do you feel most alive?
  8. 08What's your biggest regret, and what did it teach you?
  9. 09What's a question you're afraid to know the answer to?
  10. 10What's a compliment you struggle to accept, and why?
  11. 11How has your definition of happiness changed over the years?
  12. 12What does it mean to live a good life?
  13. 13When do you feel lonely, even around other people?
  14. 14What's something you're still trying to figure out about yourself?
  15. 15What's a value you'd never compromise on, whatever it cost you?
  16. 16What does success mean to you, and who taught you that definition?
  17. 17What part of your identity matters most to you?
  18. 18What's a moment that split your life into before and after?
  19. 19If you could undo one decision from your past, would you? Which one?
  20. 20What's a lesson from your upbringing that you've had to unlearn?
  21. 21What's something you wish more people understood about you?
  22. 22What do you believe happens after we die, and has that belief changed?
  23. 23If you could give your younger self one piece of advice, what would it be?
  24. 24What are you most afraid of losing?
  25. 25What's the biggest sacrifice you've made, and was it worth it?
  26. 26What's something you used to believe strongly but no longer do?
  27. 27What's the most important lesson life has taught you so far?
  28. 28What would your younger self think of who you are now?
  29. 29What's a hard truth you think everyone should hear?
  30. 30What's a fear you've overcome, and how did you do it?

How to use them

Read one out loud and let everyone answer before the next. Or start a game: Candor deals the pile at random, and a room code puts the same card on every phone.